The very essence of reconciling with God is the process of examining our conscience, confessing our sins, being repentant and remorseful, making amends or repairing the damage done. These could take many forms depending on the circumstances. What is important should be that deep in our hearts, there is absolute sincerity and unconditional intention to really go through that process, act them out without delay and receive the graces and blessings of the Sacraments.
But, yes there is a but. Remember that Christ has commanded to love thy neighbor. This calls for charity to primarily benefit others, the victims of injustice, the weak and the oppressed. How often do we heed this call?